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[charmz18]

If you ever want to have a successful relationship again, then you are going to have to get over your first love. Most of us have those first loves and then watch them as they go away. We let them go. A certain few hold onto that first love, though. If this is you, then you need to read this article, which will read like a self-help on how to get over that first love.

Out of sight often means out of mind. If you really want to get over that first love, then quit talking to them. Get rid of your means of communication. Block their internet name, delete their phone number, and cut it all off. This might sound difficult, but it will be the best thing for you. You will feel some hurt and some pain to begin with, but eventually you will see the benefit of this break in communication. If you really want to get over that person, it is essential not to even try to be friends. It will not work that way. If you get as far enough away from them, then you will get over them quickly. Never, under any circumstances, put yourself through having to witness the terrible experience of them getting over you.

You will love again. Remember that. It is not the end of the world when you break it off. Everybody had a first love that they had to get over at some point. Ask around to those who are closest to you. How did they get over it? What exactly did they do to move on? If you learn these things, you will stand a better chance of getting over that first love of yours.

[hAeL_AnNe]

nice post!

[ronajen]

nakarelate si anne!

[hAeL_AnNe]

hahahah.. react jud sad dha hihihi..

[dtng]

Just don't long for her/him anymore... It's painful, yeah, but you just have to accept that it's over between the both of you already...

It's easier said than done, I know, but that's how it is...

[hAeL_AnNe]

ryt... ryt .. ryt..

[sarge]

Maygni naka get over nako. Haha.

[charmz18]

..dapaT lang gyud mu`get over...
heehee...
anywayz,
"whatz meant to be will alwayz find itz way"

[sky_lie]

"moving on is simple but it's what you leave behind that makes it difficult..." ouch,,,,

charmz is ryt, as much as possible, don't ever make any effort to see him again, or do something like, "accidentally bumping into your ex"
just treat him/her like an "air" as if he never existed... you can even fool yourself that he didn't exist...hard, i know, but it's for one's own good. you'll feel so shattered but holding on too long or wallowing it for more than a month, that's abnormal already.... believe me, been there nah.... it's actually harder onmy part pa gani because we were in the same company. uurrrggghhh!@!@##

but then, don't let it pull you down. life goes on...you can't have them permanently... people change and so is the world.... ngita na pud lain..ana ra!!!

[hAeL_AnNe]

yep.. lisod jud bai f ofism8 nimo hahaha.. kung pwede pa lang dli na magreport ahahha... bt niwes muabot ra japon nga malimtan nimo ang feelings para sa iyaha..